No matter the age of which you get sober, pursuing interests is a big part of getting sober, and staying sober. The time spent using substances and partying is enough to have a newly sober person feeling lost in what to do next. Hobbies and activities are a sure way to help in sobriety. Replacing idle time and confusion with healthy alternatives is part of the recipe for a successful sobriety.
Why are sober hobbies important for sobriety?
Sober hobbies and activities fills up time and keeps you busy so you don’t feel inclined to fall back onto old habits. They give a sense of self-worth; Something that people in recovery often lack. It’s fun and if you’re like most addicts, you like to have fun. Sober hobbies are a different kind of fun, so at first, it might take conscious habit forming skills to get them incorporated into your life. Hobbies and activities give an outlet to express yourself. Expression of any kind is a healthy outlet and often cathartic. Connections are crucial to recovery and the camaraderie of social hobbies and activities will created a new, health social life.
In addition:
- They are a distraction, reducing the amount of idle time that might otherwise be spent thinking engaging in substance use.
- They reduce too much stress that often pushes someone into wanting to disconnect by using a substance. They can create just enough healthy stress to help someone in recovery build strength and tolerance.
- They build a new healthy identity. It reinforces the idea that you are a person who doesn’t need substances to enjoy life and they don’t need the old identity anymore.
- They build and maintains social connections. As we know this is the foundation for sobriety.
- They improve mental health by increasing self-esteem and confidence as the persons achieve new skills and milestones. And also helps combat feelings of boredom, loneliness, depression and anxiety, of which can commonly push someone to relapse.
- They provide routine and structure which provides the framework for reduced stress, higher tolerance for healthy stress, building connections, etc. Routine and structure is good for the sometimes chaotic brain of a newly recovering substance user.
- They provide personal growth
- They provide physical health.
- They give a sense of achievement and new coping skills; of which a newly sober person often feel a lack. This in turn, fuels self-esteem. And self esteem gives strength to the desire to stay sober.
- Social hobbies and activities builds closeness, trust and camaraderie. Loneliness often leads to depression. Depression is not a good emotion for staying sober.
Some ideas for sober hobbies and activities:
- Yoga classes.
- Meditation.
- Church/ temple / synagogue. A place to feel a sense of belonging is good for sobriety.
- Host a book club. Find a book club.
- Writing and journaling. Both are very therapeutic.
- Art classes. Any kind of art of craft.
- Learn an instrument.
- Get a pet, take care of someone else’s pet.
- Equine therapy. Proven to be one of the best therapeutic modalities on the planet.
- Take dance classes.
- Organizations like The Phoenix for doing anything active with fellow sober comrades.
- For alcohol specific, join a social community like One Year No Beer (OYNB).
- Host a game night. Find a game night.
- Cooking classes.
- Join a running group. Surfing group. Hiking group. Cycling group. Drumming group.
- Martial arts.
- Volunteer something that is of interest.
- Do a sober retreat. Volunteer at a sober retreat.
After experiencing sobriety with the help of hobbies and activities, your new life will be filled with a sense of purpose, a positive outlook and new healthy relationships. Learning something new and making new friends will be fun challenges. New passions will be found, deeper connections will be felt and a strong inner self-esteem will be born.
Transformation through the power of hobbies, activities and community, prove that a sober life is not just about abstaining from alcohol or drugs, but about embracing a fuller, richer life.
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